simpleblog RSS feed http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/ An RSS feed for Simpleblog EN <![CDATA[Find A Broad Abroad]> When my friends and I went on a school exchange to England several years ago, we made more jokes about being "a broad" than I could possibly count.  Now it's your turn to go abroad with a site dedicated to English Porn

Don't pay for an expensive ticket on Brittish Airways when you can enjoy the hottest birds via cheap UK Phone Sex and adult movies.  I just know these luscious London-dwellers will turn you on from across the pond! 

Love, your favorite broad,

Ashley

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5/2/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=136 136
<![CDATA[Calling All Porn-Loving Men!]> Talk about a guy with eclectic tastes!  A self-proclaimed "noble misogynist," Jock Strap has taken it upon himself to collect all kinds of porn -- big boobs, teens, celebrities, ethnic babes, milfs, escorts, and just about anything else you can imagine. 

His blog is frequently updated with new sites for readers to peruse, as well as pictures that will shock and amaze you!   If you like porn -- any kind of porn -- you'll love Jock Strap!

XO,

Ashley

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4/27/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=135 135
<![CDATA[Need some inspiration for your BDSM play?]> Ms. Ana is a dominant mistress who loves sharing her own experiences (complete with photos of her submissive) in her blog.  In addition to providing erotic stories about bondage and discipline and light-hearted journaling about her relationships, she's also begun reviewing fetish porn sites. 

If you recently purchased some bondage toys, Ms. Ana will happily show you and your partner exactly what to do with them.  Visit her blog, get some inspiration, and most importantly, have fun!

XOXO,

Ashley  

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4/14/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=134 134
<![CDATA[Have you had Orgasmic Sex lately?]> If you haven't, you're really missing out on the fun!  Orgasmic Sex offers a wide variety of adult pleasures, all on one site.

Read frequently updated porn reviews -- because nobody likes wasting time and money on a paysite only to discover that it's lacking in everything you desire!  Check out the latest adult news and erotica, or visit the well-stocked, free directory of internet porn and other adult sites. 

Then jump right in and get involved in the forums!  Share links to your favorite sites, check out hot pics of the day, and talk about the fetishes you love with other porn connoisseurs.  Don't be surprised if you start coming back day after day to see what's hot! 

Love,

Ashley   

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4/14/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=133 133
<![CDATA[Shopping for panties?]> It's become quite popular for cam-girls and other online sex stars to sell their used panties, pantyhose, and other very personal items to their adoring fans.  If you're in the market for a treat like this, the Orgasmic Sex Used Panty Site has a wide selection that will surely accomodate all of your intimate wishes. 

The girls and guys who operate this store are completely reputable and happy to comply with your special requests.   You can even purchase used sex toys from these frisky folks.  Best of all, every item you buy comes with a letter written just for you by the wearer of the panties, describing what he or she did to soil them for you.  It's sort of like sponsoring a child, only much, much dirtier!   

If you've never thought about buying worn intimates before, maybe now's the time to start. 

Have fun!

Love,

Ashley

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4/10/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=132 132
<![CDATA[Remember "Truth or Dare"?]> Maybe you played the mild version at sleepover parties when you were a kid.  Now get ready for the very grown-up, very risque, and sometimes very disgusting version -- it's Naughty Truth or Dare!  This site allows you to compete, suggest wild dares for other brave guys and girls to perform, and share your stories.  It's like a sleepover party that never ends!

Before you jump right in to the action, take a look at the crazy stunts that have already been performed.  Feeling bold?  Sign up for a Dare Challenge and show how tough you are!  Don't forget to post pictures afterwards -- what fun is a dare if no one is watching? 

Are you the truthful sort?  Are you open and honest to a fault?  Head on over to the forums, and answer other people's bold questions.  Inquiring minds want to know!

Comment here and let me know if you get daring over there.  I don't want to miss out on the fun!

Love,

Ashley

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4/8/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=131 131
<![CDATA[Thoughts of a More Adult Nature]> Fueled by the motto, "Enjoy Life, Enjoy Sex," Thoughts of a More Adult Nature covers everything from reviews of dating, sex, and other sites to the A-Z's of sex and daily sex pictures.  Well-written and ready to educate, entertain, and inform, this blog is a must read. 

If you're looking for variety, you'll find it at Thoughts of a More Adult Nature.  Whether you're looking for humor, trying to get the most out of your online experience, or simply want to get off, Thoughts . . .  is sure to keep you entertained and informed.     

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4/3/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=130 130
<![CDATA["Girls I Like" has Girls *You'll* Like!]> If you're a straight guy or a girl who loves looking at hot girls, you'll absolutely love Girls I Like.  Updated almost daily with hot pics of the internet's most beautiful women, you can even browse by your type.  Do you prefer redheads?  Or maybe amateurs?  Either way, this blog will inspire you to put those sex toys to use!

In case you want to take a break from reading about all the sexy girls online, you can also read celebrity gossip and sex-themed current events right there on the same page. 

Have fun!

Love,

Ashley 

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3/30/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=129 129
<![CDATA[Don't just sit there . . . play along with your porn!]> If you're tired of looking at the same still pictures and repetitive videos, here's something that will get you out of your rut and into a whole new world.  Erosgames has created an entire selection of interactive sex games that allow you to play along with each and every fantasy, manipulating the events and the actresses to your satisfaction.

First, meet the lovely ladies who model for these games.  You can read a bit about each one -- even their favorite sex fantasies.  Then go ahead and select the fully interactive game that turns you on the most.  You can choose from all kinds of fun scenarios including sexy secretaries, naughty teachers, and erotic phone calls (and lots more)!  There's even a sex games blog that will keep you updated when new stories are published or new models join the team.   

There's no better way to experience your ultimate fantasies at the touch of a button.  These games aren't like anything you've ever played before

Have fun!

Love,

Ashley     

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3/21/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=128 128
<![CDATA[Tips and Tricks to Improve Your Sex Life]> Written primarily for men, Sexual Advices covers a variety of helpful topics like penis enlargement, weight loss, adult acne, and herbal libido boosters. 

One of the best articles offers hints for well-endowed men and their possibly intimidated partners.  Chances are, most of these guys have been resting on their laurels and expecting women to be aroused by their massive members.  Ladies, on the other hand, can actually be quite terrified at the sight of a much larger than average penis. Following this advice will help make things much more satisfying for all involved!

If you're struggling with the opposite problem, this site will help you sort fact from fiction in the world of penis enlargement.  Discover which products are worthwhile and which are a waste of money, and start seeing results almost immediately.

Remember, if you don't feel like your sex life is as good as it should be, Sexual Advices can help you out!

Good luck!        

Love,

Ashley

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3/20/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=127 127
<![CDATA[Hot Sex for Everyone!]> Since my last post was just for girls, I figured I'd better give you guys  a treat as well -- and a treat is exactly what you'll get when you visit the classy new Hot Sex Blog

Find pictures of and links to every kind of porn you can imagine.  What's your favorite niche?  It doesn't matter:  this fun blog will have it covered.  Better than Baskin' Robbins' 31 Flavors, the Hot Sex Blog features 52 different categories.  And if you can't find what you're looking for, all you need to do is contact the webmistress and she'll find it for you. 

Best of all, you're in for a surprise every time you check out the site.  Each day, you'll find a new featured pic and link reflecting yet another niche. 

Have fun -- as if you could help it!

Love,

Ashley   

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3/9/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=126 126
<![CDATA[No Boys Allowed]> Girls, does your libido need a little pick-me-up?  Check out one of the newest porn blogs designed just for women.

Inside, you'll find a frequently updated directory of hot, hunky men.  Get up close and personal, and watch as they perform sexy solo acts or show off their skills (and their terrific bodies) as part of an erotic couple.

This great site also features a section called "Read to Orgasm," where you'll find women-centered stories to feed your fantasies.  Coming soon are sections on celebrity sex gossip, hot places to visit, and sex and life tips from a real pro. 

Just between us girls, this is one site you'll be glad you bookmarked!

Love,

Ashley

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3/9/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=125 125
<![CDATA[Remember the lady with the terrific erotic stories?]> Recently, I've had the opportunity to chat a bit more with Ana, the writer and editor of the new-and-exciting erotic stories blog I posted about a few weeks ago.  It turns out she has a personal sex blog of her own, as well. 

If you're still excited about the Pittsburgh Steeler's Superbowl win, don't miss seeing a cute shot of exhibitionist Ana in her Steeler's panties!  You can also find a recent pic of her dressing up in sexy stockings for a night out with her fiance (as well as some fun details about their sexual adventures)!  The bottom line is that Ana is a frisky girl-next-door type who loves porn and wants to share her life -- and her erotic findings -- with you!

Go check her out!

Love,

Ashley

  

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2/7/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=124 124
<![CDATA[Sally Jasons' Diary]> If you're in the mood to read about the amateur adventures of a twenty-something girl who only recently lost her virginity, head on over to The Diary of Orgasm.  In this blog, young Sally Jasons details her naughty escapades.

Sally loves porn, so you'll find loads of links on her site, along with her delightful commentary.  She'll point you in the direction of hot lesbian action, ethnic beauties, and even more unique fetishes like MILFs and T-girls.

Enjoy everything Sally has to offer.  She may only be a few months into her sex life, but she's a fast and eager learner!

Love,

Ashley

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2/7/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=123 123
<![CDATA[What I saw at Jenna's Toy Depot]> Sex Toys? Is it our imagination or are more and more women buying more and more sex toys? If you want to enhance your love life with a great sex toy or two you are in luck, there have never been so many choices as there are today! The stigmatism with sex toys is disappearing quite quickly. In the recent past not too many women would admit to owning a vibrator let alone using one. Today according to recent surveys vibrators are not just for the sexually liberated, or the sexually frustrated, it seems that the average American woman owns 2.5 sex toys! Where do you fit in? There seems to be a misconception about virtual shops that sell sexual aids, flavored lubricants, and the like: they were built for men. Not true. A woman often feels shy, embarrassed, uncomfortable about entering an online sex shop, as though she has betrayed something in herself or her lover. Only the most insecure man will view vibrators and the like as a replacement for his penis. A secure man will find the idea exciting, erotic, playful. Chances are, he's been wanting to buy toys forever, he's just not sure how you'll react. So whether you are new to sex toys and thinking about your first purchase or if your a veteran and looking for something newer, bigger and more powerful, dive right in and have fun! Read some reviews and choose what's best for both of you. ]> 2/6/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=122 122 <![CDATA[Four Fun-Tastic Blogs]> Are you in the mood for a variety show?  I've recently come across four very active, very different blogs for your viewing pleasure.

With Valentine's Day fast approaching, there's no better time than now to learn how to Be A Better Lover.  Learn tips that will help you enlarge your penis, satisfy your partner, and get more mileage out of your sex life. 

If you don't yet have a date for the 14th, a visit to the Mature Sluts Porn Blog can help put you in touch with sexy MILFs and older women who are looking to have a good time with a young stud like yourself!  Many of the entries will link you to mature dating sites, and with two weeks to spare, you may just find the woman of your dreams in time for her to get struck by Cupid's arrow!

Finally, if you don't want to wait for Valentine's Day, you can indulge in some self-love with two more free blogs.  The first, 1000 Free Porn Sites, will hook you up with more porn than you can stand -- free!  With links to high-quality photographs, niche blogs, and even videos, you're sure to find something that will excite you.  Of course, if you already know that you prefer lesbian action, you can go straight to Lesbian Gang Bangs and get all your eye candy in one place. 

Now, off you go to have some fun!

Love,

Ashley 

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2/1/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=121 121
<![CDATA[Sex Toys Kama Sutra]> If you've always thought of sex toys as objects of solo satisfaction (and who can blame you, with so many vibrators and masturbation toys to choose from), Sex Toys Kama Sutra offers a unique new perspective.  Enhanced by fun illustrations, this site explains how to go shopping for sex toys, as well as how to respond when your lover confesses his or her bondage fantasies.  This simple, down-to-earth advice offered by Sex Toys Kama Sutra will help you and your partner to look at sex toys in a whole new way -- together!

With the two of you involved in these kinky experiments, you can expect double the fun!

Love,

Ashley  

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1/30/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=120 120
<![CDATA[Web Cams -- Advice, Links, and More!]> Would you like to play with your sex toys while watching some of the hottest girls in the world engaged in live, hard-core sexual action?  A Webcam World brings you the best of the adult web, explaining in detail how to find the best web cam shows and even offering some terrific bargains to get you started.  With site reviews, erotic chat, and safety precautions every smart surfer should take, this site will give you a comprehensive overview of the world of webcams. 

Watch, and be amazed (and aroused)!

Love,

Ashley    

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1/30/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=119 119
<![CDATA[Original Erotic Stories -- and free!]> I really enjoy reading erotic stories and journals where people have decided to write about their own sexual experiences.  That's why I was so excited to discover Ana's Erotic Porn Blog just the other day.  Her site is fairly new, but she already has some terrific content up -- including lesbian stories and a ten-part BDSM series

Ana also writes conversationally about her own love life and sexplorations.  She sounds like the kind of girl anyone would be glad to know; she's witty and bold and a good writer as well. 

If you enjoy erotic stories and journaling, you'll love Ana!

xoxo,

Ashley

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1/29/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=118 118
<![CDATA[Lesbians & Sex Toys -- What Could Be Better?]> If you ever need some ideas and inspiration, the Lesbian XXX Blog is a great place to find stories and pics involving beautiful girls and their fun sex toys.

Collecting the best lesbian resources online, the blog includes links to cheap lesbian porn, as well as extreme sex, first-time bisexual girls, and much more.  Most men and even the majority of women I know find lesbian erotica so much more enjoyable than traditional straight porn, and the author of the Lesbian XXX Blog truly appears to be collecting the best!  Though the blog isn't updated as frequently as it could be, with content like these lesbian virgins, it's really too good to miss!

Have fun!

Love,

Ashley     

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1/28/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=117 117
<![CDATA[A Visit With The Walrus]> If you're looking for adult news, comedy, and pics of some really sexy girls, The Walrus' Adult Playground has it all. 

As an avid porn surfer, you may be interested in reading The Walrus' recent entry on the government's attempt to access data from Google about porn searches.   I don't know about you, but I value my freedom just like The Walrus values his! 

Would you rather do a little self-improvement reading via the web?  Our friend The Walrus is writing a mutli-part series entitled Get More Pussy.  If you've been having less than satisfactory results in this area of your life, following his suggestions may help you to overcome your dry spell.  Suggestions like carrying business cards with your phone number, email address, and messenger contacts will help you land the first date, while his other ideas will train you to give a more exhillarating sexual performance so that she'll be eager to come back for more!

Last but not least, The Walrus Blog is happy to provide you with frequent doses of comedy, dirty talk, and of course, pictures that will make you hot. 

Take a few minutes to check out The Walrus.  I'm sure you'll be back again and again!

Love,

Ashley       

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1/23/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=116 116
<![CDATA[Education and Inspiration Join Forces at ArenaXXX]> I was excited when a friend directed me to a new and growing adult site called Arena XXX.  Already quite full of erotic stories, informative articles, porn site reviews, and links to both free and pay sites, this blog-slash-directory shoots straight from the hip with its honest and upfront attitude. 

If you, like so many others, frequently surf the web for free porn, please take the time to read Annette's eye-opening article on The Myth of Free Porn.  Learn how to protect yourself from spyware, annoying pop-up ads, and even trojan viruses that some particularly evil freesites download onto the computers of unsuspecting surfers.  Don't be deceived; when you factor in the possibility of computer repairs, lost data, and time wasted surfing without satisfaction, free pics are anything but free!

Of course, not all free sites are run by scheming, underhanded adult webmasters.  Arena XXX's own designer also operates several niche porn sites that will not corrupt your computer or spam you with pop-ups.  Teens Making Out will give you several erotic stories and photos of adorable barely-legal girls engaged in sensual foreplay.  If you'd rather discover the thrills of mature sex, Hot Moms Banged will give you a kinky look at some positively radiant MILFs.  Both of these sites, as well as the five others in ArenaXXX's collection can also direct you to some of the best niche paysites on the net. 

If you're looking for more than just porn, the editors of Arena XXX are eager to give you sound advice and educational reading as well.  How to Give a Rim Job, along with many other straightforward and insightful articles, will take you through the steps toward erotic enlightenment (or at least make the journey a lot more fun)!  Expect to be treated like the adult you are, and you won't be disappointed. 

I know I'll be checking back often to see what else they have in store for us!

Love,

Ashley      

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1/16/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=115 115
<![CDATA[Sex toys in use!]> Us girls sure do love collecting (and playing with) our sex toys!  This blog will keep you up-to-date on all the hot girl on girl action available on the web.   

Featuring amateurs, wild girls who love their toys, girls just beginning to experiment with their bi-sexuality, and even erotic dancers, these ladies are truly some of the most adventurous I've seen.  If girls who love girls are your favorite women to watch, this is the blog for you!  

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1/10/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=114 114
<![CDATA[Introducing my new friend . . .]> In my recent search for entertaining sites to feature, I discovered the online home of Perry the Penis.  Written from the point of view of an easily-aroused but still rather thoughtful member of the male anatomy, this diary will keep you updated on Perry's sexual encounters, his master's attempts at dating, and the "ins and outs" of being a penis.

If you want to learn more about sex toys from someone with plenty of experience, check out Perry's Christmas Present.  He's also happy to entertain you with some truly delighful rap lyrics that he penned all by himself, complete with links to free porn sites that highlight his adventures.

Managing to stay up-to-date on even the latest pornographic technology despite frequently being kept under wraps, this big man on campus can direct you to videos and pics for your mobile phone.  He's also keenly interested in making himself bigger, stronger, and even more arousing using whatever means necessary.  Perhaps his journey of self-improvement can help you take better care of your own special friend!

You never know what you might find when you take a look at the diary of a penis, so check back often and don't miss out on the fun!

Love,

Ashley

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1/10/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=113 113
<![CDATA[Continuing my quest to put your masturbation toys to good use!]> For a very reasonable $29.95 a month, you can download up to 100 full length adult dvds, sure to enhance your solo sex life.

Find your favorite stars, from Monica Sweetheart and Taylor Rain to Jody Moore and Tera Patrick.  Every movie lasts between one and four hours, and you're sure to find several that will turn you on.  Anal sex, ethnic beauties, tiny teens, luscious lesbians, and adventurous amateurs are a few of the many fetishes featured in this incredible adult collection

Sign up is convenient and confidential, and you won't be disappointed in the quality or content DVDs Uncovered has to offer.  Think of how much fun you can have in even one month, with so many hot movies just waiting to be added to your collection. 

Happy Viewing!

Love,

Ashley

  

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1/3/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=112 112
<![CDATA[This Just In . . . sites that will put your sex toys to good use!]> What good are sex toys if you're not inspired to use them? 

In the coming weeks, I'm going to recommend some fun sites for all of you to check out.  Arm yourself with your favorite adult toys, vibrators, and sleeves, and allow me to direct you to collections of erotic stories, exciting blogs, and galleries that will give you all the fantasy material you could ever hope to see.

I just adore the variety that Babe Christie Cocks has to offer in her blog.  No matter what you're seeking -- hot erotic stories, oral sex tips, or arousing videos and pics, Christie has you covered.  You can even allow her to inspire you with her own ramblings on life and sex.  Back from a short hiatus (and certainly missed by her faithful readers), she promises to bring us regular updates, inexpensive porn trials, and all kinds of fun tidbits that will keep our sexy selves occupied for hours on end. 

Have fun, and check back soon.  I'm always on the lookout for new, erotic ways to pass my time, and I'm excited to share what I find with you!

Love,

Ashley   

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1/2/2006 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=111 111
<![CDATA[What are you doing New Year's Eve?]> Christmas is coming, and that means New Year's Eve is soon to follow.  If you don't want to stay home alone and watch the ball drop with Dick Clark, now is the time to start planning a party to ring in a new year of fun and adventure.  Here are some do's and don'ts that will help you turn an ordinary gathering into an extraordinary event.

DO plan to have lots of snacks and drinks.  No one will make it til midnight if they're starving and thirsty!  Jello shots made in penis-shaped ice cube trays, lollypops in the shape of naked women, and risque mac n' cheese will keep your guests feeling full and frisky.

DON'T feel like you need to invite everyone you know.  Sometimes all you need is a small group of friends who are looking to have a good time. 

DO bring out the board games.  Playing games on New Year's Eve was a tradition I loved from my childhood.  Revisit it as an adult with grown-up twists on old favorites like Truth or Dare, Charades, and Ring Toss.  

DON'T get so caught up in playing host or hostess that you forget to have a good time yourself.  Do as much as you can to get prepared before the party so you'll have time to relax and enjoy your night.

and finally . . .

DO thank your guests for coming by giving out fun little trinkets as the clock strikes 12.  Pecker party favors for the ladies, keychain condoms for the not-so-gentle men.

Then make a resolution to have equally as much fun ringing in 2007!

Love,

Ashley

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12/11/2005 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=110 110
<![CDATA[Sexy Secret Santa Gifts]> Christmas is coming, and what better way to celebrate than with an adult version of everyone's favorite jolly fat man? 

You heard right, Santa Claus is available as a sex toy.  Stuff this Jolly Old St. Nicholas vibrator into your sweetie's stocking, and she'll get caught doing a lot more than just kissing Santa!

If you feel a little shy about presenting your love with something as bold as a vibrator on Christmas morning (say you wake up with the kids or still live with mom and dad), Mr. C can also be found disguised as a flasher, a naughty mug, and a well-endowed candle.  Why have a boring holiday when you can have an x-rated one?

Check back soon for more fun holiday gift ideas and sex toy news!

Love,

Ashley 

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12/4/2005 http://www.8pixel.net/simpleblog/?view=pLink&id=109 109
<![CDATA[Guide to anal sex toy play and erotic sexual stimulation]> Guide and Introduction to Anal Sex Toys

Anal sex has long-suffered a taboo reputation. The connotation attached to anal intercourse varied from ‘an unnatural activity’ to ‘dirty’, and it was dismissed as ‘off-limits’ sexual toys play for many couples. Fortunately, with the introduction of more open-minded sexual education and the publication of anal as a mutually enjoyable sex toys activity, it is now becoming acceptable and appealing to a greater majority of people interested in sharing new experiences together and exploring their sexuality.

For partners new to experiencing anal penetration and intercourse, they may still harbor feelings of guilt or unease when thinking of engaging in anal sex with toys. While the connotations mentioned above are fading slowly, they may still resonate with your partner. The first step to enjoying any new activity together is to talk openly and honestly about your feelings, and listen to your partner’s thoughts, feelings and concerns. Be sensitive to one another’s needs, desires and fears, and approaching new or formerly taboo subjects will bring you closer as you learn about each other.

Once your partner has decided that they are interested in receiving anal sex, there are a few key points to consider before rushing to the bedroom.

Comfort of the Receptive Partner

The appeal of anal intercourse is two-part: the excitement of engaging in something considered taboo that is new to you both, and the tightness and sensation offered by the anus. However, one aspect of anal penetration that makes the receptive partner uneasy is often the notion of discomfort or pain. With the following steps, we will try to ease these fears as much as possible and prepare you both for a pleasurable experience.

  • The anus is often very tight, and anal penetration may feel strange or uncomfortable if you are not accustomed to it. A good place to start becoming used to this feeling is while you are aroused with your partner. Have your partner apply light pressure around and on the opening of the anus, rubbing and touching, while you are engaged in other acts. As this playing becomes a more natural part of your sexual repetoire, your partner can insert a lubed finger slowly into your anus, working up to go deeper and deeper, and working up to inserting additional fingers. You can become accustomed with the feeling of anal penetration easily this way while still enjoying other activities.
  • Once the receptive partner has become more comfortable with the feeling of anal penetration, it can be fun for you both to incorporate toys made for this purpose. There is a vast selection of anal-friendly toys: butt-plugs, dildos, beads, and even attachments for vibrators. Select a smaller toy at first, and work your way up to larger-sized toys.
  • When inserting ANYTHING (fingers or sex toys) into the anus, always use plenty of lube. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not generate its own natural lubrication. For this reason, it is vulnerable to tears during dry penetration, and this is extremely uncomfortable and painful for the receptive partner.
  • There are anal sex lubricants made especially for anal penetration that are longer-lasting and better suited for anal, and you may choose to try one of these as a comparison with your regular lube.
  • For hygenic purposes, it is a good idea to slip a condom over your sex toy before inserting it into the anus. Adult anal sex toys that have been inserted anally should NOT ever be inserted into the vagina afterwards without being cleaned; this will spread bacteria from the anus to the vagina and will put a receptive woman at risk for infection. If you are sharing adult toys, it is necessary to clean your toy and slip on a fresh condom before using it on your partner. Adult anal sex toys should always be cleaned before first use and after play – antibacterial soap is a must. However, depending on the material of which your sex toy is made, the cleaning instructions vary. Please see our short guide for more thorough information on how to clean your sex toys.

Anal Intercourse

Once your partner feels at ease with anal penetration, he or she may be more enthusiastic about having anal intercourse. Once again, listen to the receptive partner’s feelings and thoughts before rushing to act. By taking the time to show your concern for your partner’s comfort and feelings, the first time should be mutually enjoyable for you both.

  • Show your partner you care. Set the mood with a shower or bath for two, lit candles, and a sensual massage. Though you may both be excited, take your time to enjoy one another and not jump right into anal sex intercourse.
  • Spend extra time on foreplay. For the receptive partner to have an enjoyable experience, it is best to be fully aroused and ready. Think of what your partner really loves, whether it be oral sex, caressing their body, or intimate kissing, and devote your time to making them feel great.
  • Be open to giving your partner an orgasm before attempting anal. If your partner is female, she may enjoy getting off with oral sex, manual stimulation from your hand or a sex toy, or vaginal intercourse before engaging in anal. If this helps her to feel comfortable and turned on, listen to her desires and needs and put her first.
  • As always, make sure you are using enough sex lubrication. Check in with your partner as you are having foreplay and make sure he/she is comfortable. Gently massage around the anus and slip in a lubed finger, or a sex toy if your partner is game.
  • A note about position: many people choose to lie the receptive partner down on their stomach. This is probably the easiest position to try first.
  • When inserting the penis, extra lubrication is a must. Caress your partner while you are SLOWLY inserting your penis. Often, it is most difficult (and sometimes painful) when the head of the penis is inserted, and the receptive partner may tense up at this feeling. Go slow, moving your penis slightly in and out, until you feel your partner relax. When your partner gives you the go-ahead, begin slowly pushing yourself in. Stroke your partner, talk to them, tell her/him how it feels. Encourage your partner to do the same. Push your penis in, moving yourself slowly back and forth, and side to side. When your partner is comfortable, you can start gently thrusting, but be careful not to thrust too deep at first. When the receptive partner is enjoying themself, you may thrust deeper, vary your stroke, and experiment with what feels best for both of you.

It is possible for a receptive female to have an orgasm through anal intercourse. It is often described as a full-body, intense tingling, and is a powerful experience. However, if your female partner did not orgasm through anal intercourse, be open to give her an orgasm through another means.

Afterwards

As with any intimate activity, it is important to cuddle and caress your partner afterward.

Listen to their thoughts about the experience, and share openly and honestly. It is possible your partner will not like anal sex to the extent or at the frequency that you may.

Going forward, sharing a new intimate experience with your partner will only deepen your bond and help you each learn about your sexuality individually and together. Having a healthy attitude towards sexual relations and intimacy will drive passion within your sex life and can only add to your mutual satisfaction. You can use this openness to find variety and excitement to share within all phases of your relationship.

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